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Daniel Harrison

Today while researching yet another adoption case to locate an adoptee whose birth name was Daniel Harrison, when I googled that name, an article talking about "forced adoptions" popped up.  Just the term "Forced Adoption" had me wondering, what on earth is this about? So I click on the keyword which redirected to a Facebook account in which the first post was titled, "The latest from Daniel Harrison".   I learn quickly that Mr. Harrison was an adoptee, just not the one I'm looking for. However, I continue on reading through this Facebook page because now that I'm here, I am very intrigued to learn more about the Forced Adoptions of Australia.

FORCED ADOPTIONS

Continuing down the posts, I stop at on a hyperlink post, http://www.firstmotherforum.com/, which is described as Birthmother/First Mother forum. Because the term Birth Mother grabs my immediate attention due to my profession, I become curious of why this post is on this Facebook page, and so my curiosity follows the link.  I don't see anything about "forced adoptions" at first, but I continue slowly scrolling this site, which is rich with interesting stories.  Finally I come to a headlined titled, “Canada to pay millions to victims of forced adoption in 'scoop' era".  WHAT?! I stop promptly due to every word I see in this sentence that has more than two letters, now has my COMPLETE ATTENTION. (Go ahead, I know you want to go back and re-read the sentence without the two letter words).  Now that you see what I see, let’s go learn what this is all about!

Click here and read the article and get a little history lesson like I just did, and learn about how white people of power made a decision thought to be of "good intentions" for Native American children,  because they believed they would have a better life if raised by white families.  Sadly, this was NOT THE CASE for most of them!  Many of these children were confused, afraid, longing for their families, their culture and way of life, but suddenly and without warning, were now "Force to be Adopted" by white families. They were forbidden to talk in their own language or practice any of their "Indian lifestyle ways", not allowed to dress “Native” and was to learn the “white way” of life, not necessarily the right way.

SOUNDS LIKE EARLY HUMAN TRAFFICKING TO ME!

This is the era when Indian Schools came into play back in the day! Now I can understand if they were taking children who were orphaned, or desperately poor and starving, but this was far from the truth for many, as described by an Adult Native American man, name St. John in the next article I was led to when I reached the ”sources" for the previous article.  St. John reports that he was “snatched” at 4 years old, along with 3 brothers. He had more siblings, but they “escaped”.

 

LOST BIRD a.k.a  ZINTKALA NUNI

While reading St. John’s story, I come to learn of the term “Split Feather Syndrome” described in a paper by Carol Locust,” as the damage caused by loss of tribal identity and growing up “different” in an inhospitable world,  also referred to as “Lost Bird.  Lost Bird derives from one of the earliest Indian adoptees, a Lakota infant who survived the 1890 massacre at Wounded Knee. She was found crying (a very weak cry) 4 days after the massacre, under the frozen corpse of her mother!  She was claimed as a war trophy by a general who later adopted her (more of a political gesture it is believed)  and named her Lost Bird, according to her biographer, Renée Sansome Flood in her book titled, “Lost Bird of Wounded Knee”.

 

This article was simply not enough for me. I needed to know more about this young lady. What became of her after adoption? Did she return to her people? Did she go on to have children? How long did she live? So I googled it.

The first link I clicked on was from the blog of author, Joan Gage. Her title description is why I chose it, because she added one captivating word, “BETRAYED”.

Lost Bird, Survivor of Wounded Knee, Betrayed By the White Man

A MUST READ!!

Gen. Leonard Colby and infant Lost Bird    Picture above is property of Joan Gage, originally posted at the above link to her article.

 

Still, after reading her article, I needed more about Lost Bird!  I opted to find a documentary about her and even more so, I need to share it with all of you! Her story is one that the world SHOULD know about.

http://watch.sdpb.org/video/1486093946/

 

 

 

STEPS TO FIND YOUR FAMILY SUCCESSFULLY

  • The first step is to start your  family tree. This is where  you will add important information as you go, such as birth dates, death dates, marriages, children born, newspaper clippings and more.  Even if you're adopted, start a tree with what you know, even if that is just your adopted name.  There are other steps to follow that will help fill in this tree. Adoptees will probably end up with 3 or 4 trees, researching possible leads, but this is a good way to keep track of what you have already unfolded.  Consider your family tree, your work space or billboard of information.
  • The next step I suggest is to submit an autosomal DNA test with Ancestry.com, FTdna, 23andMe or My Heritage. I personally prefer Ancestry.com.   However, if you are a male seeking a birth father, then I strongly suggest to also invest in a Y-DNA test, which is specifically for the paternal line. This is how you can uncover "surnames" to investigate.  Click here to learn more about Y-DNA tests.
  • Note: Adoptees, a DNA test will provide you with substantial clues, however, if it is paired with your "NON-ID" information that you obtain from the adoption agency or vital records department in the county you were born in, MAGIC can happen!  The smallest clue can lead you in the right direction.  Read about my Non ID and DNA case. 

Besides, your NON ID is all about you and your adoption. You are entitled to it and should have it! Some states may require a "compilation" fee. I know Wisconsin's fee is $45-75 with an option for you to have them do the search as well (I personally would hold off on that and just request your medical and non id info for now. You can always hire them at a later date. Save some money and see what you can discover on your own first).   ALWAYS CHECK to see if your birth parents signed a waiver to release their identity, if you were to inquire to find them.  You can also submit a waiver to release your identity to them if they inquire to find you.  Click here to learn more about NON ID information.

  • Understanding the "cousin connection" in DNA results

Ok, so your DNA results are back and you just don't understand how every match is a cousin!  Each generation match (2nd cousin, 3rd cousin)  has 2 - 5 different possible charts that could fit your match. To determine which chart you should use, pay attention to the age difference between you and your match.  Let's say you were born in 1973 and your 2nd cousin match was born in 1954. Considering a generation is about 15 - 20 years in distance, your match would be 1 full generation older than you.

I work these charts backward, so Where it says "YOU",  put the name of your match and where it says "your match",  put your name. Why....because browsing the family tree that your match provided (work with a match that has a family tree posted), you can work backward in time, to the top left column box (ancestor - usually a grand parent) under the top main centered Grand parent.  The top centered box (great (x) grandparent) simply signifies that the top box in each column below are siblings.  One of the siblings of the person in the top left hand column box above your match, is the connection that is going to lead down to the person you are searching for.  But don't trust just one match...you want to work a chart on a minimum of 4 matches and find the common ancestor, or "proof" that you have the correct branch!  I suppose you can work the chart either way, I have just always started with the DNA Match on the left side.

There is a lot of time involved in working these charts, especially the further back in time you get, the more siblings there seems to be. Families were baby making machines back then! (giggle) But be patient and be consistent with documenting your information in that family tree, so you dont research the same person twice!  You will find matches that you will just never find out how they connect, and that may be due to an adoption or name change. Records were not kept as accurate then as they are today. This is why WE as researchers today TAKE NOTES.  Keep at it and you  Will FIND your family member.

One more suggestions I would like to ad, is newspapers.com.  I have found so many wedding announcements, obituaries and crime reports that name other family members you may not have know even existed. So be sure to cover all angles. Newspaper articles have been a HUGE resource for my searches. And let's not forget the whole "google it" reference. Try it once and just  google your name and location and see what pops up. Or for adoptees, google your birth date, location and the word "adopted".   You just never know what may be out there on a world WIDE web!

 

Hope this helps some of you in your searches. When all else fails.....THERE'S ALWAYS CHAR! 🙂

3rd cousin match @ 1 generation
Ancestry.com 3rd Cousin match @ 1 generation older
2nd cousin match
Ancestry.com 2nd Cousin match @ 1 generation older

DON'T BREAK THE BANK ON BIG COMPANY RESEARCHERS TO FIND YOUR FAMILY

I will not bad mouth any research companies or tell you what you should do, I just want to enlightened you with what many of my clients shared with me that came to me for help, after working with these such companies. They immediately regretted their decision and was required to pay a very large amount of money to even begin the search, and I'm talking several hundreds to thousands of dollars !  Then months go by with vague to no reports, but then "suddenly" they are on to something BUT it will require even more money to complete the search. The problem is, many times "complete the search" doesn't mean Found Your Family or Person you hired them to find, it means, "we did all we could" and sorry we couldn't find them. I am not saying that 'all people finder companies" are this way, just a large few that have been confidentially complained about to me.

I do not and will not work that way! I will always keep you in the loop on the search progress no matter how little or much is developing. There may be times with large gaps of communication, but that's only because I get so involved in my research, that one case can take me away from many hours to weeks! Just give me a gentle email or messenger nudge. I get caught up and may need a reminder.

  I have been a researcher for more than 24 years as of 2018 and I am extremely easy to work with, inexpensive and generous.  I will work with you because I want to be the one that you can rely on and the one to deliver the results and answers you need. 

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Logging into facebook today, I find yet "another" success story of DNA brings a family separated by adoption, back together! Just one more reason WHY YOU SHOULD SUBMIT YOUR DNA to ancestry if your adopted. DNA DON'T LIE! If you're looking for true answers...this is one great place to begin. I included the link below to Michael's success story radio interview.

Source:
http://bigfrog104.com/syracuse-natives-facebook-search-to-find-his-birth-mother-pays-off-video/


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